They/them/theirs - A monthly non-binary discussion

Jo and Rayne are non-binary and once a month they sit down and talk about what that means. We’re here, we’re queer, let’s talk about it.

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#7: What's in a Name? Chosen Names, and Pride

Click here to enter the Pride Month Giveaway, running until July 4th! This month we end up talking a lot about names, and how we're treated as a result of the weight those decisions we make, and those made for us. Gender Outlaws: by Kate Bornstein and S. Bear Bergman...

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Click here to enter!! Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server! Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

#6: Dysphoria Buster

This month, we had a relaxed rainy day chat to catch up and talk about some listener questions! Defining: Neopronouns Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server! Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio. [audio...

#5: Break In Case of Gender Emergency + Mailbag

Here is a list of LGBTQ focused hotlines and online services! Welcome to April, in which we talk about packing for vacations, and travelling, finding out best self through transition, and answer listener questions! Harry Josephine's Twitter thread Join our discussions...

#4: Alas! Gender – Formative Gender and Sexuality Experiences

At around 45:20 into this episode we talk about our experiences with a transphobic slur and concept, so heads up! This month we sit down and bounce between topics and conversations about media that gave us questions about ourselves early on, and other formative...

#3: Presentation, Experimenting with Fashion, and Queer-Made Clothing

Together this month, but not actually, we discuss existing outside of our usual safer spaces, Carlito the Raccoon, binding, presentation, choosing clothes, navigating dysphoria and experimentation, and queer owned clothing brands. Links for things we discuss/recommend...

What people are saying…

“I have asked friends to listen to this with me bc I am just so bad at explaining my gender. After listening to it she would look at me at the line about the mix and match body parts and asked if I feel like that. I obviously said often times yeah. The hosts do great and provide such a relaxing and fun way to talk about gender. Thank you guys.”

– Dukeofdork 

“I love this podcast so much. As a fairly closeted non-binary person, this is extremely relatable for me. You’ve put things into words that I’ve had a hard time explaining. This is honestly making a big difference in my life, and helping me cope with dysphoria and prejudice. The majority of my family doesn’t support trans people, or even believe that Non-binary identities exist, but your podcast has created a community for me, so thank you so much for making this, and please continue because it’s really making a difference in my life. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈❤️🧡💛💚💙💜”

– ships lams

“Rayne and Jo seem to have so much fun together and I like that they each have different non-binary perspectives to come from (sexuality, workplace, family). I’m looking forward to hearing more banter that I can chew on as I figure out my identity.”

– Flummoxy

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Show Cast:

Jo: @ghostofjo
Rayne: @smallsmallwitch

Theme music: “Big Trucks” by I Believe in Julio