They/them/theirs - A monthly non-binary discussion

Jo and Rayne are non-binary and once a month they sit down and talk about what that means. We’re here, we’re queer, let’s talk about it.

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#4: Alas! Gender – Formative Gender and Sexuality Experiences

At around 45:20 into this episode we talk about our experiences with a transphobic slur and concept, so heads up! This month we sit down and bounce between topics and conversations about media that gave us questions about ourselves early on, and other formative...

#3: Presentation, Experimenting with Fashion, and Queer-Made Clothing

Together this month, but not actually, we discuss existing outside of our usual safer spaces, Carlito the Raccoon, binding, presentation, choosing clothes, navigating dysphoria and experimentation, and queer owned clothing brands. Links for things we discuss/recommend...

#2: Dingos Crossed

This month we sit down to bounce between several topics, including gender comics, SonicFox, finding the right pronoun for you, the fear of "deciding" vs experimenting and fluidity, Jablinski, metaphors, cowboys, and Nintendo's naming conventions. You know, the usual....

#1: A Charcuterie of Gender

In our inaugural episode, we sit down and talk a little about our history with gender and being non-binary, what it's like explaining being non-binary and coming out, dysphoria, finding ourselves in media, our favorite vines, and cats. Our theme music is Big Trucks by...

What people are saying…

“I have asked friends to listen to this with me bc I am just so bad at explaining my gender. After listening to it she would look at me at the line about the mix and match body parts and asked if I feel like that. I obviously said often times yeah. The hosts do great and provide such a relaxing and fun way to talk about gender. Thank you guys.”

– Dukeofdork 

“I love this podcast so much. As a fairly closeted non-binary person, this is extremely relatable for me. You’ve put things into words that I’ve had a hard time explaining. This is honestly making a big difference in my life, and helping me cope with dysphoria and prejudice. The majority of my family doesn’t support trans people, or even believe that Non-binary identities exist, but your podcast has created a community for me, so thank you so much for making this, and please continue because it’s really making a difference in my life. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈❤️🧡💛💚💙💜”

– ships lams

“Rayne and Jo seem to have so much fun together and I like that they each have different non-binary perspectives to come from (sexuality, workplace, family). I’m looking forward to hearing more banter that I can chew on as I figure out my identity.”

– Flummoxy

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Show Cast:

Jo: @ghostofjo
Rayne: @smallsmallwitch

Theme music: “Big Trucks” by I Believe in Julio